Forgetting as a Transformative Experience in the Analytic Process –
 Psychological Insights from Daoism
 
 
 
Dr.Yehuda Abramovitch                                                                                      Dr.Galia Patt-Shamir
Israel Institute for Jungian Psychology(I.I.J.P.)                                                                       Dept. of Philosophy
Dept. Of Psychiatry, Sackler School of Medicine,                                                       Dept. of East Asian Studies
Tel-Aviv University                                                                                                                  Tel-Aviv University
 
 
 
 
 
Once Zhuang Zhou dreamt he was a butterfly, a butterfly flitting and fluttering around, happy with himself and doing as he pleased. He didn't know he was Zhuang Zhou. Suddenly he woke up and there he was, solid and unmistakable Zhuang Zhou. But he didn't know if he was Zhuang Zhou who had dreamt he was a butterfly, or a butterfly dreaming he was Zhuang Zhou. Between Zhuang Zhou and a butterfly there must be some distinction! This is called the Transformation of Things.  Ch. 2[1]
Dream arguments occupy a place of honour in worldly philosophical argumentation, in particular in asserting scepticism. Since we all experience night dreaming, in which we are usually unaware that we are dreaming, it is a logically possible that we are dreaming at anytime. For example, I might just be dreaming now, I might not be typing these words, the typing fingers are not necessarily part of my body, my body is not necessarily "mine", and I might not necessarily exist in the physical sense. Rene Descartes, in his famous dream argument, concludes from a similar experience: cogito ergo sum! In other words, I doubt, I think, thus "I" exists in the mental sense, as a doubting thing. The dream argument is thus presented as setting a dichotomous distinction between the physical versus the mental, the becoming and ceasing as opposed to the eternal, the tangible and the conceptual. This important distinction gave birth to the greatest philosophical problem in modern times, namely, the mind and body problem, which ever since captivate some of the greatest minds in the modern Western world.
Had Zhuangzi lived in our days, for example, in Tel-Aviv, and had he written the above words, he would have probably be suspected in being mentally disturbed (or else, a post-modernist). Had he told a doctor that he might be either a person or a butterfly, he might had found himself hospitalized in some mental institute for losing touch with ground. Interestingly, Zhuangzi's dream does not bring him to losing ground or getting detached from the world he lives in. In fact, it is the other way round. Then, what does Zhuangzi wishes to say by means of his dream? First, the dreaming experience is an experience in life. The "factual status" of happening has nothing to do with one's experience. When Zhuangzi is a butterfly (in his dream) he is a butterfly. Either dreaming or in wakefulness, the experience exists as such. Thus the dream argument brings to a reaffirmation of the world rather than to doubting it and disconnecting from it. Second, when he wakes up he does know that he isn't dreaming. He knows it just in the way that you and I can distinguish between sleeping and wakefulness. However, after being a butterfly, he does not consider the distinction between mental states essential for understanding life. Namely, what we experience, either in day activity or in night dreaming activity is one in sense of its value. Third, the experience of being a butterfly is important for self understanding. A butterfly is connected with two main characteristics. First it associates with freedom. Second, a butterfly is the ultimate representation of transformation. Waking up a cocoon, in the evening already a caterpillar, then a butterfly - before she (or he) can even think of self definition she (or he) changes. Only when one forgets the distinction of "higher" and "lower" statuses of reality, one is more open to experience oneself as a transforming creature, perhaps similarly to Alice's caterpillar in Wonderland who is not bothered at all by the indetermination of the answer to "who am I", when in the midst of answering to Alice he transforms into a butterfly. Life is change and transformation. Language can't grasp it and is thus oriented to fixed notions and concepts, which distance us from our own experience.
On a different occasion, responding to a Confucian view, Zhuangzi says:
He who dreams of drinking wine may weep when morning comes; he who dreams of weeping may in the morning go off to hunt. While he is dreaming he does not know it is a dream, and in his dream he may even try to interpret a dream. Only after he wakes does he know it was a dream. And someday there will be a great awakening when we know that this is all a great dream. Yet the stupid believe they are awake, busily and brightly assuming they understand things, calling this man ruler, that one herdsman ‑ how dense! Confucius and you are both dreaming! And when I say you are dreaming, I am dreaming too. Words like these will be labeled the Supreme Swindle. Yet, after ten thousand generations, a great sage may appear who will know their meaning... Ch.2
The important point about Zhuangzi is his acknowledgment that in some sense, everything is a "dream", thus everything exists. There is no "right" and "wrong". Confucius' words are a dream and his opponent's are a dream, and Zhuangzi knows that his own words are equally only "a dream" in the sense that nothing is certain. If someone thinks it is a riddle she perhaps will understand it when a sage will appear "after ten thousand generations". Yet, then again, Zhuangzi adds: "but we meet the sage on a daily basis", in front of the mirror, we may add.
If everyone in a sage, nothing in particular has to be learned to attain sagehood, but some things have to be forgotten. Confucius was the big moralist of the times of Zhuangzi, and Yen Hui was his best student. Zhuangzi, of course, does not believe in a moral way, which is acquired through learning, remembering, and distinguishing. Hence, in the following words Zhuangzi "borrows" Confucius' image in order to make a point against Confucians (and perhaps to have some fun to.)
Yen Hui said, "I'm improving!"
Confucius said, "What do you mean by that?"
"I've forgotten benevolence and righteousness!"
"That's good. But you still haven't got it."
Another day, the two met again and Yen Hui said, "I'm improving!"
"What do you mean by that?"
"I've forgotten rites and music!"
"That's good. But you still haven't got it."
Another day, the two met again and Yen Hui said, "I'm improving! "
"What do you mean by that?"
"I can sit down and forget everything!"
Confucius looked very startled and said, "What do you mean, sit down and forget everything.'-"
 Ch. 6
Forgetting distinctions (liang wang兩忘) is primarily observed through forgetting morality, then through forgetting society (xiangwang 相忘) characterized by means of ritualistic behaviour and music (as an integral part of Confucian ritual code). The "Confucius" of the text understands that these are necessary steps for reaching the way. When people search for goodness, beauty, and truth they create a distinction between good and evil, beautiful and ugly, true and false. Hence they create the evil, the ugly and the false. Had the distinctions not been created, there were no malicious persons, no hideous behaviours, and no wrong places. Forgetting certainly does not refer to an amnesic state, rather it is forgetting evaluations, which brings to seeing all things as equal, and life as a process of transforming. The outcome of the process of "sitting and forgetting everything" (zuowang 坐忘) is that one forgets oneself  (ziwang 自忘)and thus is "empty" in the unique following sense:
"If a man, having lashed two hulls together, is crossing a river, and an empty boat happens along and bumps into him, no matter how hot‑tempered the man may be, he will not get angry. But if there should be someone in the other boat, then he will shout out to haul this way or veer that. If his first shout is unheeded, he will shout again, and if that is not heard, he will shout a third time, this time with a torrent of curses following. In the first instance, he wasn't angry; now in the second he is. Earlier he faced emptiness, now he faces occupancy. If a man could succeed in making himself empty, and in that way wander through the world, then who could do him harm?" Ch. 20
No one gets annoyed at an empty boat, no one harms an empty boat, and an empty boat neither annoys nor harms anybody. Zhuangzi explains the sense in which distinctions, preferences, and values have to be forgotten in order to be empty, as follows:
The snow goose needs no daily bath to stay white; the crow needs no daily inking to stay black. Black and white in their simplicity offer no ground for argument; fame and reputation in their clamorousness offer no ground for envy. When the springs dry up and the fish are left stranded on the ground, they spew each other with moisture and wet each other down with spit ‑ but it would be much better if they could forget each other in the rivers and lakes!"  Ch.14
The interesting phenomenon with dying fish (at least some species) is that they spit and moist each other, as if they understand "the essence of fish": being fish is living in water, and there is no (living) fish if there is no water. "Fishly" "self-identity" is revealed, according to Zhuangzi, upon dying. The simile is quite clear. Human beings create the theoretical pursuit of ethics, religion and psychology upon dying. When the world is in order no question is raised such as "who am I", and no answers are needed in the form of religious, philosophical, or psychological doctrines. Life is what it is (ziran 自然). When pain grows we find ourselves looking for doctrines that explain ourselves to us. We look for ourselves at professional clinics, instead of simply living our lives. Zhuangzi wishes his reader to be simple like the blackness of crow and the whiteness of goose.
Zhuangzi sees this point so crucial that he mentions the dying fish in the text again, with a different stress:
When the springs dry up and the fish are left stranded on the ground, they spew each other with moisture and wet each other down with spit ‑ but it would be much better if they could forget each other in the rivers and lakes. Instead of praising Yao and condemning Jieh, it would be better to forget both of them and transform yourself with the Way.
The Great Clod burdens me with form, labors me with life, eases me in old age, and rests me in death. So if I think well of my life, for the same reason I must think well of my death.
You hide your boat in the ravine and your fish net in the swamp and tell yourself that they will be safe. But in the middle of the night a strong man shoulders them and carries them off, and in your stupidity you don't know why it happened. You think you do right to hide little things in big ones, and yet they get away from you. But if you were to hide the world in the world, so that nothing could get away, this would be the final reality of the constancy of things.
Praising the moral legendary leader Yao and condemning Jie are considered symptoms of dying. Forgetting both is freeing oneself from conceptualizations and being able to transform. Accepting transformation we may welcome death with no worry, when time arrives. Then we may no longer feel that we need to hide our "possessions" such as our gray hair, wrinkles, or fatigue bones from anyone. We will no more have the need to hide meanings in big words and cover intentions with demagogy. "Hiding the world in the world" is being in our authentic places. Then we may be able to finally "forget words", keep the meanings, and use words more effectively, as Zhuangzi explains:
The fish trap exists because of the fish; once you've gotten the fish, you can forget the trap. The rabbit snare exists because of the rabbit; once you've gotten the rabbit, you can forget the snare. Words exist because of meaning; once you've gotten the meaning, you can forget the words. Where can I find a man who has forgotten words so I can have a word with him?" Ch.26
We would love to respond to Zhuangzi's invitation to having a word with him. In fact we would like to suggest a way to forget words, with a hope to reach deeper meanings, and then be able to exchange words in an analytical manner. So let us invite Zhuangzi from his wondering on the way to the analyst's couch.
Moving away from the field of ideas to the analytical field; "forgetting" was defined by Jung in "Symbols and the Interpretation of Dreams" (written in 1961, shortly before his death), as a situation in which contents remain outside the range of vision, against one's will, through a deflection of attention.
Are we in an opposite standing to the philosophy of Dao when it claims that forgetting is freeing oneself from conceptualizations in order to be able to transform?
In our talk we discuss a dream, based on Jungian and on Dao understandings. Both systems highly value dreams, and look upon them as experiences of life. However while Zhuangzi refers to the dream, the dreamer, and the world from an epistemological perspective, the Jungian systems of thought attribute compensatory meanings to dreams. We believe that while Daoism in itself cannot become a therapeutic means, it can provide a new, richer and more creative perspective to the analytic process. We suggest here that forgetting may also be an active process, congruent with transformative needs and not just a casual event which takes place when interest turns elsewhere. We, therefore, suggest that it might be the tool one needs in order to liberate oneself from the vicious circle of patterns and complexes.
 
Let us refer to a second dream, this time taken from the psychiatric clinic:
A woman in her late thirties recounts this dream: "I am on the beach and begin to swim. I float and draw away from the beach .The waves swing me and the feeling is great. Suddenly I realize I am deep in the ocean and understand that unless I do something, I might not be able to return to shore. I see my husband, my mother and colleagues from work on the shore, they are scared, they wave at my direction and call me to wake up and return. I realize that if I don’t come to my senses the waves might carry me away and I might not be able to return. I am frightened … but the water is so good…"
The dreamer, a physician, is a woman held in the grip of a rigid and negative father complex which forces her into a life of unbearable competitiveness and ambitiousness. She finds herself in a long standing conflict between the continuous need for achievements in the professional and the inter-personal fields and a strong and regressive urge "to let go" and to not be. This conflict does not permit her to realize her potentials and it expresses itself mainly in feelings of worthlessness and incompetence, mixed with anxiety, avoiding behaviors, mood swings, suicidal ideations and occasional alcohol and drug binges. 
 
In his influential article "On the Psychogenesis of Schizophrenia", dated 1939, Jung elaborates on the similarities and differences between the dream making process and the symptoms of mental disease. Common to both processes is an "Abaissement du niveau mental", a notion borrowed from the famous French physician and co-founder of psychoanalysis Pierre Janet. "Abaissement du niveau mental" means annulment of the rule and control exercised by the ego-consciousness on the mental apparatus, thus liberating complexes that gain autonomy and flooding the consciousness of the dreamer (or the psychotic). This abaissement is attributed by Jung to a state of weakness, "Faiblesse de la Volonte", as will happen in normal sleep or in various pathological states.
We are not facing an easy process. Every neurotic, and actually all of us, are engaged in an ever present struggle to subdue the power of the unconscious to the ego-consciousness. To be aware. We all face the mighty temptation to stop fighting and to submit to the power, images and symbols flowing from the unconscious. We are dealing here with incest, in its analytical and symbolical meaning. This longing for incest changes its face and form according to the stages of development of the ego as is so beautifully described in Erich Neumann's treatise "Origins and History of Consciousness".
Here is the principal field in which psychoanalysis, and Jungian Analysis in particular, operates. We deal with memories and recollections. We deal with the intrapsychic dialogue which aims at integration of the internal contents and primordial images of the personal and collective unconscious.
It is on this background that the dream was discussed.
The dreamer tended to understand the dream as a warning originating from within. A warning against the lure of regression expressed as submission to the ocean, floating away and distancing from regular tasks and activities as were represented in the dream by mother, husband and colleagues. Particularly was the dreamer alarmed by the pleasure she had from floating on the ocean's waves and the wish to submit herself to it. She realized that unless she acts, exercises her willpower, i.e. swims to the shore, she might be swept away and drown. The ocean was obviously understood as representing the unconscious, and the wish to submit to it as an incestualwish to merge with it, in an uroboric incest that will annul (or maybe liberate her from) her duties as a professional, a wife, a daughter and a living and active member of human society.
 
But it is possible that even though this was the direction accessible to the dreamer from the start, the intention, of the dream was different.
 
It is possible that walking on this well known path, the call originating from ego-consciousness to go back to daily duties and obligations, brings the dreamer back to the grip of the suffocating and blocking complex. Perhaps an active process of forgetting is required. We are now dealing with an active and energetically loaded process of proceeding "Contra Natura", not with a passive process of denial or disregard. We are dealing with a purposeful forgetting of the objective reality, i.e. observing the shore and what it represents, and yet not swimming scared towards it. Instead it is a venturing at what the unconscious (the "Terra Incognita") may offer. Thus it will become possible for the dreamer to discover powers originating from within which invite her to take a new path.
It might be, that submitting to the ocean, as suggested by the dream, is submitting to the enriching power of the unconscious which might enlarge the behavioral and cognitive repertoire of the dreamer through integration of new images, contents and insights.
Very often, daily reality, complexes, duties and habits do not allow us to be in touch with the internal world, or with new materials originating from it. They are perceived as dangerous and alien and are repressed into the shadow.
Therefore an active process of forgetting is needed: forgetting, in the service of development, in the service of learning anew and eventually, for allowing transformation to occur.
Our dreamer is standing at a crossroad with two potential realities to choose from. The first one, well known, the old conflict under the shadow of her father complex: competitiveness and future failures as represented by the shore and those waiting, waving and calling her back. The second is new and unknown. A dangerous reality sprouts, swimming in unknown waters, relying on the fertile but also deceiving forces of the unconscious. An active forgetting of the other reality is therefore suggested. An attempt to liberate herself from the old ways in order to learn, to expose herself to "the new" stemming from within. This second path is a difficult one. Anchoring oneself in known patterns is soothing, relying on old ways makes us feel normal. One may drown in the ocean, or in a psychological understanding, lose ones sanity.
These new imageries or new living potentialities away from known complexes are not easily achieved. Adopting the second reality is a heroic choice.
 Prometheus the titan who stole fire from the gods (or in other words that part of the psyche which steals new consciousness from the self) pays with eternal painful memories.
Only the titan survives the wrath of the gods. 
Therefore only the heroes, only those who know how to swim will not lose their ways in the sea and will return richer, more developed and with a wider psychic repertoire.
Is our dreamer heroic enough?
The butterfly dream of Zhuangzi becomes more relevant than ever.
 
 


[1]All quotations from Zhuangzi are taken from Burton Watson (trans.) Zhuangzi - The Complete Worlks
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